Making a change is not easy. Some people will tell you that you can't do it, others will literally try to stop you from making a lifestyle change.
People don't like to feel left out, but they also don't want to get out of their comfort zone. They are stuck right where they are and never want to change.
Crabs in a bucket is the perfect term to describe this situation. Any crab that tries to climb out literally gets pulled right back in.
Have you surrounded yourself with people who will help you change or people that will pull you back down?
